You are commanded to raise your voice!

This is a guest post from Jackie Lee

Over the weekend I was lazily watching the Sunday Morning Show, one of those guilty weekend pleasures I guess. It’s usually pretty relaxing stuff, and doesn’t really get me fired up. However, this week they featured an extended interview with Harry Belafonte Jr. I must say, I know his name, but I wasn’t super familiar with him and the things he has held dear throughout his life.

The interview was very interesting, he’s done some amazing things, and stood up for some really incredible causes in his life. I was about to go about my day and not think much of this interview when at the end of the piece he said this:

A patriotic citizen is commanded to raise their voice to the issues they feel are important to the nation.

Wow.

Commanded to raise their voice?

Issues that are important to the nation?

Here’s the actual interview.

hmmm…

It got me thinking. I’m a mom. I’m a blogger. I’m a huge lover of social media.

I believe that we are killing our children with the decisions we’re making about the food and food like substances we put in their mouths.

I have some pretty strong feelings about it as a matter of fact.

However… as I look at my blog, and my facebook page I see a bunch of wishy washy, let’s not offend anyone comments, and content. I can remember times when I’ve gone to “like” some more radical comments and thoughts that I completely agreed with and then thought better of it, with thoughts of … “Hmmm who will see this?” and “What will they think?”

I’ve carefully measured my words, and my outrage in order to maintain the status quo, and to not upset anybody’s apple cart.

But WTF?

Isn’t it the status quo that got us here? Isn’t it the fact that people aren’t willing to stand up and say “quit bottle feeding your 1 year old POP!?!” that got us to this place we are now? Isn’t it because some of us aren’t willing to stand up to the majority and say, “this is some messed up stuff we’re doing to our kids!” that got us to a place where childhood obesity has more than tripled in the last 30 years, and the place where more than 1/3 of children and adolescents are obese?

Isn’t it our silence that allows this to continue?

Harry Belafonte seriously smacked me in the head when he said it is my DUTY, in fact, I am COMMANDED to RAISE MY VOICE, as a patriotic citizen, and I am a patriotic citizen, to the issues that are important to our nation.

I wonder… as bloggers, and obsessive social media folks (or is that just me) how can we better use our voices to bring about change in this country?

What could YOU be raising your voice about, that you aren’t because you wonder what others might think?

Let’s talk about it…

Can you use your platform to raise awareness without killing your business? Should you? Do you think as a patriotic citizen you’re commanded to raise your voice on issues? I can’t wait to jump into this conversation with you!

Jackie Lee is a full time work at home mom on a mission to end childhood obesity in her lifetime. She’s helping the busy families of this country juggle family, fitness and food and make better choices one blog post at a time at www.EverydayLifeandBalance.com. You can find resources for your family and join the conversation at her facebook group Family, Fitness and Food.

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Alice79 15 pts

I am really interested to this post..

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Ayla85 6 pts

I agree with the idea that as a "Chain of command" you must had a powerful aura to control your stuff.

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LauLau81 131 pts

Hi...The title really interests me a lot so I like reading your post...

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Sonia (Sunnnee) 43 pts

What I liked most is that you speak your mind. I can tell when a blogger wants to just scream %(#@) and hold back for whatever reason. Even when what they have to say could make a difference, I see people still hold back so they don't hurt someone's feelings when they need to just tell it like it is. I applaud you for seeing something in yourself and standing up for what you believe as a mother and blogger. Go girl!

WGB2U 205 pts

This is my first visit here Frank and boy am I glad! What a great post to pop in on - thank you Jackie! I was having this EXACT conversation tonight with my mom about blogging and the lack of ba#!s people have when writing and commenting. I had another great blogger, social media wiz and business man Extreme John (@extremejohn) write to me about this issue this past weekend and I was so grateful. He said, "Just be you and don't worry if someone can't handle it.” He went on to say a lot more, but that was the gist of it.

I'm outspoken by nature and you pretty much always know where I stand. I don't stir up stuff to just make waves, but I will respond passionately to issues/topics that speak to me. I think we do a responsibility to raise our voices - dear heaven look what's happened since we've been told not to or it's not "PC"!! If we don't start raising our voices we are in deep trouble. Now see, I could get all worked up here!! Let me just say I think you have a great point here and I commend you for taking the command! ;) I'm with you and am working on a post that touches on this issue as well. I feel quite validated after reading this, so I'm grateful! ;)

I’ll be back to visit for sure!!

Much kindness,

Elena

Jackie Lee 25 pts

WGB2U Elena, I'm so glad you found your way here, and that my post spoke to you so strongly. :) I am pretty opinionated as well... and I've gone back and forth with myself about how strong of a stance to take on things. On one hand I know it helps me attract certain people, but on the other hand I wonder if I'll only end up "preaching to the choir" and alienating the people I really want to help. I'm still trying to feel my way through it, but I know I'm definitely going to have to bring a stronger voice to the game. :)

WGB2U 205 pts

Jackie Lee

I think it's all in delivery really. I've learned to "temper" the strong northern Italian in me ;) to a degree; however I'm a firm believer in being cold or hot, but not lukewarm. To be so is something I think is weak and a copout in my opinion. It goes back to the saying "you've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything" and we are living proof of that all around us ... it's astounding sometimes to think about. My hat is off to you finding that stronger voice - I'm on you're team as I'm going to step up my game a bit! :)

Happiness!

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

WGB2UJackie Lee "I'm a firm believer in being cold or hot, but not lukewarm."

YES!!!

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

WGB2U Hey Elena! Glad you stopped by and found the place to your liking.

I can tell you this for sure, we always do our best to tell it straight around here and Jackie is one of those guest posters that i can totally rely on to do so. She's top-notch people and a great blogger!

I'm with you on standing up, speaking up and having our voice heard through all the mumbo jumbo that goes around these days.

Glad you are here!

Jackie Lee 25 pts

Hey Frank! Thanks for having me on your blog again. I am excited to be part of the conversation that comes from this post... I know you're community has opinions and I'm looking forward to hearing them ~ as well as suggestions and ideas they have!

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Jackie Lee My (our) pleasure Jackie. Great post - got me thinking for sure.

I look forward to the conversation!